Tuesday, June 06, 2006

How to hire a wedding coordinator, consultant or planner

It is summertime, and I normally don't work too much so today I spent much of it looking at my competitors marketing materials on the net. First off, there are SO many more (consultants / coordinators) than there were three years ago. In looking at those present, there are the same 6 who were here back in the day along with 20 new ones. I have seen them come and go.

It is disheartening to see my copyrighted content on their website. Unfortunately they didn't even have the know how to change some of the verbiage up. Oh, well - I'll send them a friendly email sometime. They do say imitation is a form of flattery, so flattered I am.

So on this topic, I thought I would put some tips on here for your benefit:

  • What is their formal training? Have they gone through any certification process, and I mean a real one - like Nuptial Essentials, June Weddings, Wedding Beautiful. We have gone through Weddings Beautiful and Wedding Careers. Did they just wake up one day and claim to be a wedding / event planner?
  • Do they have a formal education? Any college at all? Any professional education which lends itself to teaching you the aptitude to get the job done? We have a Bachelor's and Master's degree as well as our other planners have a minimum of a Bachelor's degree.
  • How many weddings have they done? Not for friends or family, but real weddings, which require real work, which they were paid. Ask for references, for email and number of former and current brides.
  • How have they solved problems with those weddings? If they say they haven't had any - it's just not true. Even as a seasoned professional - I encounter problems. It is the nature of the beast. The seasoned professional will get through it and often times, the bride never even knew.
  • Are they a one stop shop? Do they also rent linens, photography, catering, etc.? While it is nice to dabble here and there (We also have a stationery business). What is the primary goal of the business, quantity or quality? Be wary of the one stop shop - there are bargains to be found, but not always. Our jobs are to get to know you then make recommendations based on your personal style and budget, not because we sell, rent it or have it. I would not even try to be a photographer or a makeup artist, nor do I need to rent you linens and chairs. My focus is you and your plans - we'll find the rest together.
  • How do they charge? Wedding Consultants charge for their services in three ways: a percentage of the total expense, an hourly fee, or flat rate. In some cases, a combination may be used. The best way to determine the cost for a wedding coordinator in your area is to call several and ask about their fees. For the couple on a limited budget, a wedding consultant may seem like an unnecessary additional cost. This is not true! Couples on a restricted budget need a coordinator the most. One of the services provided by the wedding coordinator is planning the event the bride and groom want while conscientiously keeping within a predetermined budget. We prefer flat fee. We don't charge percentages because what you spend has nothing to do with the work we do. You pay us to advocate on your behalf. Nothing irks me more than percentages or kick backs.
  • Do they have assistants? Every consultant should have assistants who, if necessary, can take charge of the event. The unexpected can always happen to a consultant-- sickness, a last minute accident, death in his/her family. The bride should always be given the assurance that the consultant will have written records of all planning, contacts made, and contracts signed. In case of an emergency, the wedding will go on, without any problems, through the help of an assistant. We have two current assistants and agreements with other professionals in the event the worst happens.
  • Is this coordinator a member of any other professional organization such as NACE, ISES or ABC? We are members of AWEC and ISES. These memberships are important because we receive continuing education on various business topic in the special event industry.
  • Do they have liability insurance? You would be surprised how many businesses operate without such assurances.

Any other questions you would like answered? Please email us and we are happy to respond.

This photograph is from Winfield Little Photography. It is one of my favorites.


Thursday, June 01, 2006

Congrats to The Jasirs!

I just received a nice baby announcement. Healthy baby boy. The These two go way back, about 2 years. I can't wait to see pictures. Here are a couple of pics from their wedding.




Friday, May 26, 2006

Pictures from Christine and Brad's wedding

I just peeked at the amazing photographs by Marcus Revilla. If you click here, it will take you to his blog entry about this wedding. Instead of recreating the wheel, you can see for yourself.

This wedding had great elements:
White on white decor with small silver accents
White dress swarming with swarvorski crystals
Silver chargers peeking under a white napkins with a menu card.
Silver framed place cards
A Cake as tall as the cieling (yes, I am exagerrating, but only a little). This cake was draped with crystals.
Tall white rose arrangements with pin spot lighting.
My favorite sign in book - the polaroid guest book.
and the cutest flower girl and ring bearer (the planner's children)



Monday, May 15, 2006

Congratulations to Christine & Brad




Christine and Brad are getting married this Saturday. This one will also be one San Antonio Wedding to remember. St. Joseph's Catholic Church with all the fanfare - then off to the Marion Koogle McNay Art Museum. All these weddings this spring are just fabulous. The white on white with silver accents and pinspot lighting will be the perfect in the Leeper Auditorium.

Here are two shots from Christine's bridal session this past week. This dress is awesome. It is the Paradise dress from the Reem Acra collection. These photographs are taken by my favorite photojournalist, Marcus Revilla. Thanks again to Marcus for having such a great eye. Christine's Mom was questioning every shot we took downtown. I knew it was genius in the making.

Friday, May 12, 2006

Traditional Wedding Anniversary Gifts - what to do

In case you all didn't know it, we also run Isabel's Paper Boutique. Most of our business is not local. We do a lot of custom work - it's my favorite part of the business. So we get a call yesterday, and I was touched by the guy on the other line. The traditional gift for the first anniversary is Paper. He wanted to get the vows he wrote calligraphed and framed. How sweet! I can't stand all this sugar.

Anyway - it got me to thinking...What are the traditional gifts for anniversaries. I can't say I have thought about it for many years - not even for my own. So, in honor of Reagan, who is giving a great gift for his wife, here it is:

  1. Paper
  2. Cotton
  3. Leather
  4. Fruit / Flowers
  5. Wood
  6. Candy / Iron
  7. Wool / Copper
  8. Bronze / Pottery
  9. Pottery / Willow
  10. Tin / Aluminum
  11. Steel
  12. Silk / Linen
  13. Lace
  14. Ivory
  15. Crystal

20. China

25. Silver

Some of these are interesting - Wool / Copper? I'll have to work on that one.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Tips for dealing with Tuxedo Companies

Sometimes, just sometimes, they can be rude. Last October my sister got married here in San Antonio. It consumed my life and of course, I was late getting fitted for tuxedos. Well, we had 5 tuxedos to get fitted for. My husband and four boys. They wanted to charge me an extra $20 / tux. Times 5 that is $100!! I dropped my name, told them how often I refer them. How I always take care of their tuxes and return them promptly the next afternoon. Didn't work.

So, after all that, here is the tip:

I walked out and went to the next store (same company, another branch) and ordered the same tux outside of the group. I actually paid less than the others in the group. So if you find yourself in a bind, just wait an afternoon for another salesperson or go to the next store. Don't pay the extra fee - SO not necessary.